Here we are for another sex talk Sunday's Fantasy & Desires discussion. Today's topic is "When is a good time to lose your virginity?", this topic was a requested topic from one of my blog readers she is 17 years old, in her last year of high school. She lives with her parents that are Christian and was raised in the belief of being married before having sex. Trisha is the young girl asking for my advice and those of others, she feels comfortable with me using her real name as she believes no one will know it's her. So please guys leave a comment below with your own opinions on the subject and your advice for Trisha.
Hey Trisha,
This question is kind of a tough one for me to answer. I don't know if you read my earlier vlogs about my life, but I lost my virginity at 13. I will say this though before I get into details and give you my advice. I feel comfortable enough to give you my advice because one I am now 27 years old and have children, and two I made many mistakes in my life and learned from them and feel wise enough to give you my personal opinion. Moving along, Trisha hunny I want to first congratulate you on your last year of high school, you are almost there! I'm very happy and excited to meet someone that still has her virginity intact, because now in days it's rare to see girls hold on to there virginity just because they want to fit in with the "cool" crowd or are to self concious and or pressured to do so. Well baby girl based off the email you wrote to me, you tell me you are dating a boy that's 20 years old, you guys been together for 1 year and he been asking you to prove to him you love him by having sex or giving him head, so I'm about to rant just be warned. Trisha I have a 17 year old sister and I will go bat shit crazy to know that she is in a relationship with a 20 year old, because a guy that age is already experienced and gives zero fucks on just using you for another gem on his belt. What I mean by this is that sometimes the man just want to be able to take away your virginity for bragging to there friends. On another note I'm fucking furious that he is even telling you that in order to prove to him that you love him you must have sex with him or suck his dick, well hunny I have 3 words for you LOSE THIS ASSHOLE...You should never feel pressured to have sex with anyone unless you're ready to do so and having sex with someone to just prove to them that you love them that's just retarded to me. I feel like your virginity is something precious and you should want to give it to someone that you love but that you know that the moment is right and that you not being forced into doing it. You also asked when is the right time to lose your virginity? Well honestly my love their is no right time, it's just something that you will know when the time comes and you know. For some it's at 16 and for others it's well in their 20's. You also asked if I think you should wait til marriage to do so, and honestly I think that's a bit of unrealisticness that parents tell their children lol but it's also not impossible it all goes according to how YOU want to go about it. The last piece of advice that I will give you is to think things through and come to a decision that you want to do for yourself. From what I hear you are not sure and are very focused in school right now and busy working part time, girl have fun being a teenager go party, laugh every chance you get then think about the seriousness of losing your virginity remember that having your virginity is special and you can only lose it once so make sure you choose wisely. I am not telling you that the man you choose to lose it to will be with you forever or who knows maybe he will but just make sure that it's special to you. Love you hun and I hope I answered your questions and good luck with everything and I hope you email me with a follow up on what you decided to do or if you followed through and had sex.
To my readers I want you all to try to give your input on this matter since many of us are parents or sister's, brother's etc. Every piece of advice given Trisha can take into consideration for making a positive choice.
*** Attention all: I will not be releasing a chapter tonight because my little princess Victoria is sick and needs her mommy's full attention but I will be releasing 2 chapters tomorrow to compensate for today's chapter, I also made sure to release sex talk Sunday's blog just so I can give you guys a small read for the day love you all X0x0Xox0X ***
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