Hey my loves...It's Monday and I'm doing a sex talk Sunday just because I do not know what happened. I scheduled this blog post to be posted yesterday and that did not happen which is weird but any who...This blog is about my thoughts on anal sex, so let's get this going!!
Today we will be discussing my views on anal sex, would I recommend having anal sex and some safety first tips. I came up with this topic based on conversations I've had with some female friends and questions they have asked me.
My views on Anal sex:
If you all would've asked me on my views about anal sex a couple years back, I would've said hell fucking no...don't do it etc. I was one who always said it's an exit not a entrance, pretty much against it. Now my way of thinking has changed because I have actually tried it with my husband and really have enjoyed the experience. Some things you need to have in mind is that it will be painful at first but then pleasure will follow. I think that the size of the penis is important when thinking about having anal sex, because if your man is long but not thick it won't be too painful, but if your man is thick long/short that's when it will be painful. Your anus is a muscle so it can stretch to accommodate a penis that thick but the process will be painful as the man inserts his dick inside. I will give helpful tips to make the experience some what painless. I believe you should give it a try, you never know if that will be something you might really enjoy. I went out of my comfort zone and tried it with my husband and have really enjoyed the pleasures of anal sex, I have had very intense and amazing orgasms from anal sex but ofcourse I go by my own tips to make it less painful so keep reading.
Tips to keep in mind when having anal sex:
1. You more than anybody knows your man's dick size, the question you must ask yourself is are you ready to feel all of it up your...ummmm butt!
2. Be prepared!! Men don't feel the pain of anal sex just the pleasure part of it so it's up to you to make this experience a good one. Make sure to have lots of lube available, a numbing anal cream believe me this will be your saving grace, anal beads and/or butt plugs this will be used on your own to start preparing your ass for penis. I buy all of our bedroom needs at Adam and eve it's a online sex shop, so check it out.
3. Please ladies do yourself and your partner a favor and take a shit before having anal sex, you do not want to have shit coming out while having sex that's just disgusting.
4. When your partner is finally inside of your ass it will feel uncomfortable but roll with the punches, start rubbing your clit and the sensation will change from uncomfortable to amazing.
5. The more often you have anal sex the less pain you will feel, so try having anal sex about 3 times a week. You don't need your partner for this all the time, use your anal beads and butt plugs til you can handle a dildo.
These are my 5 most helpful tips I can give you for having anal sex, it works for me and I'm pretty sure it will work for you. Go into this experience with a open mind and just let go and have fun. Lastly I want to tell you ladies & gentleman's is to use a condom always when doing anal sex even if you guys are a couple that don't use condoms. Why I say this well, you don't want your man's dick in a shit hole then have him place it in your pussy...that's 1. Nasty and 2. Bound to catch a infection 3. Messy. Or if you don't want to use condoms for anal just make sure to leave anal sex towards the ending of sex and just stick to that only. All in all just have fun, I recommend trying it out and see if it's something you like and if so continue doing so, remember you can do every position with anal just like regular sex, so get creative and live a little! Love you all X0x0Xox0X.
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